Agreed he does take testing seriously i saw his results and I showed him mine. I don't want to be tied down to another person and be considered one unit. Reason being it would drive me nuts 10 yrs of a previous relationship and to get a boyfriend would be asinine to me. I just don't want to feel like I am gonna babysit a guy like I did with my ex.

Fall in love? Not looking for love at age 30 I don't want what other people want. sure love is nice to have but right now I don't really care it's about me finding myself and getting to know myself so I don't see the point in falling in love and getting a boyfriend. Things can change when I get close to 40, but right now it's about me. I made this decision after 8 months of learning about myself. I am just going on another journey in my life when it comes to relationships. I want to practice relationship anarchy meaning being autonomous and being free to create relationships as i see fit without being tied down to what society wants.