Thanks for creating this thread leomama. I'm currently in NC with a former female friend I met online over 3 years ago. I have traits of BPD but have not been diagnosed. She displayed traits of BPD along with narcissistic traits. Things were pretty good in the beginning. Major changes in both of our personal lives took a turn for the worse. We both showed each other our bad sides. She would be emotionally abusive by giving me the silent treatment and it made me angry all the time. Not a only did we have a few arguments but alot of trust issues as well. I was also indecisive to stay or leave her. She had enough and decided to end the friendship. I tried to reach out twice to mend our friendship, seek answers/closure but she never responded. I realized the relationship was unhealthy for me so I decided to go NC and try to move on. Since then I've been in NC for 10 days now and I'm starting to heal and be my normal self again.