I've had NC with most of my FOO up until my mother died. She was the one who asked what presents my daughter wanted and that was about it until she was diagnosed with ovarian cancer. My father is also dead. I'm Facebook friends with his sister but that's about it. My brother may contact me with stuff about the estate but that's been done for a while now. I just didn't want to be sucked into the family drama anymore, and I didn't want my daughter in it either.