Thanks for that, when I didn't want to get involved with my grandmother's estate my mother and my brother bullied me. My mother sends cards and money and presents, but never comes over to visit and never invites us over to visit. Meanwhile my father sends me pictures of he and my mom, or my brother and his girlfriend and their son when they come to visit. I've asked him not send me pictures anymore. The last time I was supposed to see my dad I had a limited time window because he only wanted to see me after my daughter's medical appointment. When I called him after the appointment to tell him what happened he didn't answer so I didn't leave a message. That's the last contact I've had.