I am newly single but still living with my ex with the hopes of getting back together one day, hopefully soon. Before we broke up we were rarely intimate and when we were, I would have to ask for sex, physical affection, and the like...and when it didn't happen, which was more often than not, I would get really upset and depressed.

I want to know how I ruined sex for us. I feel like he is/was attracted to me and that I am a good partner, so I don't know if I just got so upset when it didn't happen that it was a total turn-off for him?

He keeps telling me it seemed like no matter how much sex we had it would never be enough for me to be happy. But we may have been intimate 1/7 days a week (at most), and even though I enjoyed our rare engagements, they were not often enough.

Thanks for any help!