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Originally Posted by Seraphine
I think that's likely partially true. I've thought that he is narcissistic before. But because he has good times i don't know if maybe that's part of it or if maybe there's bipolar instead/also or something else going on. He has no sense of impulse control. Can't stop himself from bad behavior like drinking and gambling. Becomes emotionally abusive. Then suddenly for a week or two he comes good. Still lazy but not horrid to be around anymore.
What's ironic is that I've helped others get out of relationships with toxic spouses, and yet i stay with my own. Go figure.
As for worse, pain is all subjective. There is not really a worse, because they all are valid xo
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Most likely he has more than 2 illnesses. I think mine has more than 2. I finally had it this past week though and broke off my engagement to him to teach him that he just can't hurt me and expect things to be fine. I think that softened him because I've never seen him call a therapist so fast. So now he's gonna go. I guess it took him losing me to learn something. I told him I can still be there for him and be his friend but he's hurt me too much for us to have any romance or a romantic relationship right now.
Maybe your husband has to feel like he's lost something but everyone is different especially since we're not 100% sure of what he has.
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