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Old Aug 22, 2016, 07:54 AM
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Originally Posted by dahlianoire29 View Post
Most likely he has more than 2 illnesses. I think mine has more than 2. I finally had it this past week though and broke off my engagement to him to teach him that he just can't hurt me and expect things to be fine. I think that softened him because I've never seen him call a therapist so fast. So now he's gonna go. I guess it took him losing me to learn something. I told him I can still be there for him and be his friend but he's hurt me too much for us to have any romance or a romantic relationship right now.
Maybe your husband has to feel like he's lost something but everyone is different especially since we're not 100% sure of what he has.

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That sounds like a wise decision. If another person is using someone like a drug its likely there's a trauma bond between the two of them which needs to be broken. I hope that things improve for you.

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Thanks for this!
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