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Originally Posted by CantExplain
There is no guarantee of closure even if you do it in person. You can't turn off a relationship, even a bad relationship, at the flip of a switch. Nor over a set of four termination sessions.
You might get closure with acquaintances, but I think it is a myth that you can get closure with intimates. You just have to grieve.
PS: Some sort of ritual, like a funeral, might be more effective.
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Thank you for that, CE - maybe that's why t seems to be pushing the 'taking a break' thing. Because we're both going to grieve the loss of our relationship probably me more than her but... I think we both will regardless of if we have 'termination sessions' or not. This gives me a new way to look at it.