Verbal abuse: THe Verbally Abusive Relationship by Patricia Evans is a MUST read. Actually, in France, verbal abuse IS criminal. The U.S. has a long way to go. If you are interested; I have written a paper on the subject. It is destructive emotionally and physically. You can also look it up online....verbal abuse and get information.

You might want to seek therapy for yourself (never go with the abuser)However, if you read the aforementioned book........your eyes will be opened.

Verbal abuse is all about control; insecurity. They are emotional vampires and need a constant "supply"--that supply is you.....trying to explain yourself, etc......