So I have two weddings coming up. I realized I never had a wedding date. Me at 36 have never had a wedding date

. Now one is a co worker which would be nice to have one but not that urgent. Now my best friends where I'm in it I definetly would love to have a date. In fact I feel I must have a date. His wedding is sorta destination for me. He lives in Florida so I'll be there for a week, to get fitted, throw bachelor party, rehearsal dinner and I'm not gonna fly in and out in a weeks time so some sightseeing.
What do I do? Do I hunt for a girlfriend? Do I ask someone casually to be my date. What steps do I go through, what's my strategy? Been a while since I've been with someone.