Im like you. Need to be alone, process, cool down. Then talk.

My husband used to follow me into rooms, unlock doors, just to finish an argument.

I brought it up in therapy with him. The therapist told him, if the door is locked, you dont go in yelling. You wait.

Hes never done it since.

But i think that if i told him he was abusing me, based off a website, he would be hurt. Dont know if i could come back from that. The better way would to explain your feelings when there is no argument going on.

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