Pat, I'm so sorry you're having such a hard time.

Don't know what else to tell you except give you the little saying that soothes my soul when things go down the toilet for me: "What goes around, comes around." I've seen it happen, especially to my ex. (evil grin) There were so many times I wanted to do things to get even with him, but all I had to do was bide my time. He's paid ten-fold for what he did to me and his kids. It's so much more satisfying to know the opposition has paid so much more than you could have thought to do to them... and you didn't lift a finger! LOL
Hey, that [censored] is already losing his house!

People like him don't get very far without something else kicking them in the gut! Just sit back and watch and see if what I'm saying is true.
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Psalm 119:105 Thy word is a lamp unto my feet, and a light unto my path.