When my daughters father and I divorced , it wasn't pretty. He cheated. Sure I was really hurt , destroyed for a time,

But I made a choice from day one that no matter what I would never talk shyt about him to my daughter. No matter what happened in our marriage we had a wonderful amazing 6 year old daughter that HER feelings were more important than the nasty stuff her father and I dealt with away from her.

One day my daughter asked me , she was about 9 I guess " why do all my friends that have divorced parents and are always pulled in the middle of crap? And i have never felt that way ....I said so your dad and I didn't stay married .... But that doesn't mean you have to pick sides because it's impossible we both love you no matter what.

I had friends, family and a T to unload my garbage and learn to move on in life.

It's fine to have anger about him and whatever he had done, work on yourself let your daughter go about life and not have to hear a bunch of bullshyt between divorced parents.

I'm not saying anything to be mean or anything.

Learn how to let all that past hurt fall away. take back your life, you deserve happiness too.

Good luck I

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