I am a middle aged female and have been craving sex like crazy lately. I'm on a dating site and have been talking to a nice guy who I know I'm not interested in long term, but I am interested in for a casual hook up. The problem is that I've never done this before and while I'm craving sex like you wouldn't believe I'm afraid that if we meet up and have sex that I'm going to feel bad about myself afterwards. On the other hand, I know that you only live once and having casual sex is on my bucket list since I've never done it before.

I guess that what I'm looking for is some reassurance that this is normal, lots of people do it and that not every person on these dating sites is a murderer! Also would love to hear from others that have had similar experiences and if they were glad they acted on it or if they have regrets.

Thanks in advance