It's hard getting help for a teenager unless they want the help. I put my daughter through therapy and medication from 15 to 18. When she turned 18 she stopped seeing the specialists and threw her meds in the trash. I don't know what's keeping her going now other than the dream of getting out of this house. She has depression and anxiety, and possibly PTSD. She has the report for accommodations for college, but she doesn't want to use that either unless it'll help her take closed-book tests.I just understand your frustration.