well, sit down....or lie down.......the buyers backed out ....we went to close in March and they have waited this long.......i've spent thousands on legal fees that will come out of the house sale and now they bailed......i was floored......i cried.....i yelled and then i went to walmart and got such a culture shock that it snapped me right back to reality .....there ain't a thing that i can do about this, this week. i'm going to suck it up...do Thanksgiving, see Shar and maybe Phil in Austin and let my kids take care of me.....how's that for a survivor?????xoxoxoxo to every one of you!!!!