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Originally Posted by boraz
She is 20 years old, beautiful, smart, sweet and funny. We are 99% compatible. She says she loves me (not "in love"), that I changed her life, that because of me she is a different, better person, and that she wants me to be in her life. She spent the last 6 month texting and calling me, day and night while I was living overseas. We shared our deepest secrets.
The issues? I'm 38 and she has a boyfriend.
Now that I'm back where she lives things are starting to get really messy, I wanna see her and spend time with her, she wants to see me too but I can tell she holds back, probably because of her boyfriend, who already complained multiple times about me. She cried her eyes out for an hour when, 2 days ago I told her we can't keep doing this and that it would be probably best if she didn't call me or text me anymore.
Needless to say, I'm falling for her, since I have deep emotional issues, and not texting or calling her is driving me crazy, but the rational part of me is telling me she is never gonna leave her boyfriend for me
Am I crazy even thinking about pursuing this?
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You are not crazy for feeling the way you do, She is in the wrong and is using you, She sounds like she wants her cake and eat it too, I would be very upset if I were in your situation, You deserve better and a woman that really is in Love with you, Why torture yourself with seeing pictures of them together happy, Obviously she has feelings for her boy friend and she is not going to leave him for you, I am not trying to hurt you with what I am saying, I am just being honest, Yes it hurts and yes it sucks but you must move in and find some one new, Dont let her use you any more your more important than that and I am sure there are alot of women that would live to be with you and have the same qualities, I am sorry you are going threw this, I hope things get better for you soon