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Old Oct 15, 2007, 05:53 PM
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i think i worry my identity would unravel..

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I have this fear too, you are not alone. I am very fearful that if I lower my defenses then I will be a complete mess. I do not want to be one of those people who totally breakdown at the smallest challenge.

It also sounds like you are afraid to let him in and start to care about him and the relationship that could develop. You might find out that you need people after all. I have this fear also although I won't admit it anywhere else but here.
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