how does changing a time equate to a boundary issue? No offense or anything, but that doesn't make sense to me. i mean, if you kept changing times with little notice or being demanding about what time was "yours," well, that i could see. But i do not understand it otherwise. Can someone explain that to me? i change times with my T, we both do.. and sometimes he cancels sessions but he always gives me notice, same here. Is there something about what you said that i am missing?