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Old Aug 24, 2016, 08:39 AM
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After reading your responses and the other posters you should not pursue this at all. I understand the feelings you have for her may be hard to get around but the fact is there are a few things going on.

first off you are asking here because internally I believe, you know this is wrong, something is not sitting well with you about the situation and you need confirmation or a solid push in the right direction because you are unsure. Many times our gut feelings are right and if I am correct, your gut is right here too and this is not a good situation to pursue.

She is wrong in saying to any other man when she is in an exclusive relationship that she loves him. She not only has told another male this but one that it seems she is aware has feelings for her so it seems to me that it could be very likely she is using you like others have said here. This is called an emotional affair when it does not involve the physical (yet) but nonetheless is just as adulterous and is deceitful on her part. If you are allowing yourself to get involved in this more you are going to be a part of that affair and just as responsible for this.

Her boyfriend. Is it fair to allow this to go on, when he clearly understands on some level that she is getting attached to you and being emotionally involved with you? Put on a pair of his shoes, imagine your girlfriend telling another man she loves him and sharing her deep dark secrets with. Would that concern you? Would you not feel betrayed and cheated on?

IMO for the bf, I think he should break it off from her because she is clearly not a trustworthy person. For you, not only should you walk away from this because of the fact she has a bf but because right now she is proving also to you that she's not trustworthy and likely (very likely) this is something she would also do to you.

Think, please.