I really don't know what to say to this, you've had such positive feedback from women on here - guess they aren't the people on Tinder.

I'm not on the dating scene and have not been for many years. When I was single (& very young) I had all kinds of different unsolicited reactions from guys, positive (told I was beautiful), negative (told I was not attractive), and indifferent (most of the time thankfully).

The conclusion I drew from this is that I would not let anyone else's opinion of me define my self worth. I've slipped up on this resolve a few times in my life but I try to stick to it.

I hope you won't let this experience define your self worth - you are obviously worth much more than that. Tinder women of AZ's loss I say.