"Codependent relationships are a type of dysfunctional helping relationship where one person supports or enables another person's addiction, poor mental health, immaturity and under achievement."

I had to look up codependency- I guess my marriage is codependent with my h being the one who enables me the above problems, and I have done everything for him so that all he ever had to do was go to work. I didn't have poor mental health and addiction in the beginning, though...but that developed as a result of being with him and unable to form a healthy bond.

I've always been an under-achiever considering I am very bright and capable. I always thought I had ADD and blamed it on that. Plus, anything I ever really wanted to do, I did fabulously! I am highly achieved at under-achieving!

If I had a dollar for every report card that said "T would be an exceptional student if she would only apply herself."