So my mom always gets mad at me for not doing the dishwasher. She then makes me feel bad about her having to drive me around to places and telling how unappreciative and lazy I am. But she doesn't care I get straight a's, varsity on sports, I try my best at things. The only reason I don't do the dishwasher is because I'm doing homework. And then she calls me a liar for not doing it like I said I would. And then I told her how even if I do it, she still finds something to be mad about and she replies sarcastically "fine I'll just give you a gold star and you can do the same for me". And then tonight during all this, she walks out of the room and says under her breath (I wasn't supposed to hear) "you ungrateful bi***" and I went and confronted her but she said she felt really bad and said sorry. It hurt. But she treats me like I'm the laziest person in the world, and how she works so hard and works 40 hours a week plus driving me around. But if I was lazy I would be wasting all your money by not trying at anything I do. I don't know what to do but we fight like this all the time and I'm tired of it. Is it all my fault? Should I talk to her? How? Family counseling? Any help would be super appreciated. Thank you.