I can understand why you are upset, very much so. Denial and not accepting it on her part...she can't hold her head in the sand forever.

I brought my ex to a local bipolar support group meeting once. He seemed underwhelmed. When we left he said he never wanted to go again. Because he has me every day.

He never went to a pdoc appt either, despite my pdoc encouraging it.

I wish things were different for you. I hope they improve. Regardless, you have my understanding and empathy. It's not a substitute but I do care. PM me anytime if you like.