Interesting observation. I can see how this might happen when it shouldn't.
Thanks for raising awareness.
I have had trouble getting professionals to listen and to help.
I had started with physical disabilities.
They see my persona as strong and articulate, or so they tell me.
When I could use some help, I am often told, "You are bright, articulate and a great self-advocate. You don't need my help."
Lots of similar assumptions are also made if someone is viewed as intelligent and articulate.

WC