Its not so much about blocking him - I am trying to understand how he can be so lovely to me and then do something like this over a trivial matter and still say he is 'seething' days after - he also did this before an important law exam of mine and will start criticising everything about me - one day I am so beautiful and the next I am someone with medusa hair and wild eyes who 'dresses to death' - I wear a suit for my job and have naturally curly hair - just wanting to know if its his illness causing this or is he as Im now inclined to think, just a vile individual who gets kicks out of trying to hurt me and damage my esteem for some reason