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Originally Posted by TaraE
Its not so much about blocking him - I am trying to understand how he can be so lovely to me and then do something like this over a trivial matter and still say he is 'seething' days after - he also did this before an important law exam of mine and will start criticising everything about me - one day I am so beautiful and the next I am someone with medusa hair and wild eyes who 'dresses to death' - I wear a suit for my job and have naturally curly hair - just wanting to know if its his illness causing this or is he as Im now inclined to think, just a vile individual who gets kicks out of trying to hurt me and damage my esteem for some reason
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All the more reason to make the split. His behavior isn't acceptable and it's emotionally impacting you. Why have you all stayed in touch? FWB? Academic competition? Your desire to psychoanalyze seems to indicate you're still emotionally involved. You two may feed off each other. I don't mean this unkindly.
Bottom line, motive is irrelevant don't you think? It's over.