I found these two boards....can't vouch for them, but both links worked.

HealthBoards.com: Spinal Cord Disorders Message Board, they also have a board for depression.

http://www.healthboards.com/boards/f...play.php?f=117

Braintalk Communities: - has both a forum on spinal injuries and one on the psychology of chronic illness...not sure if either of these will help

http://brain.hastypastry.net/forums/