I've looked up my T. She knows because I told her. She doesn't ask what I've found out, and I don't tell her. I would if she asked. But she knows I mostly do it to see pictures of her. She doesn't mind. But she told me when we terminate that she'd like me to stop looking her up. Instead choose 1 picture and keep it.

Most the information I learned is no big deal. I know a little about her daughter, her dog's and cat's name, her age, a little about her husband, etc. There are 2 things I know that I feel bad about. One is her home address. The other I'd rather not say.