I'm sorry. It really isn't a good way for any T to respond to their client. Even if she was annoyed by your emails (something she apparently never discussed with you), no one EVER has to open an email from anyone. She could have left them or deleted them and then told you in the next session that she needed to discuss with you her "rule" about no emails under any circumstance. And if the email was about scheduling, all she had to do was text you and given you an answer and politely ask you to contact her only through text. I get it that every T approaches the topic of emails, texting, phone calls and/or letters differently. But why on God's Green Earth is it so hard for Ts to understand that they need to COMMUNICATE their preferences???? Their behavior drives me crazy! (no pun intended). We clients are told all the time that we need to learn to communicate, but then our Ts go off the rails and fail to communicate appropriately and clearly with us. Nutty!

Wish you weren't feeling so attached to her. She really isn't worth the pain and anguish, but I do understand why you feel that she's the only game in town. Deep sympathy coming your way.