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Originally Posted by monalisasmile
Oh wow, I actually cannot believe that your next session would be cancelled. How do you feel about that myrto? Because I feel very annoyed and angry on your behalf. Firstly I do think you did cross some boundaries but only because she wasn't meeting your needs by answering your requests about your work together(scheduling)! I really don't think this regimental punishing way of working will teach you boundaries and in fact when we are clearly ignored like she ignored you we all cling on and cross our ts boundaries to get some kind of response.
I feel it would be better to talk about boundaries and why you needed to contact her when you did, what was happening for you in those moments would be more helpful and insightful than punishing you here. The way we interact and connect with others is really insightful to us and I feel this is where your healing is, learning how to connect respectfully with each other, you and your t.
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Punishing me with the threat of "your session will be cancelled if you contact me" is ********. It's incredibly condescending. I agree, we should have talked about why I needed to contact her. Thanks.