Definitely B&W thinking, though am trying to see the middle ground. However, there have been several instances where plans with a few particular people have been cancelled last minute, only to later see on facebook that they went out with other people instead. So yes, that definitely leads to me latching on to it as "proof" of them no longer wanting to spend time with me, but I feel as though even a neurotypical individual might feel similarly if they were in my shoes?

I've actually deactivated facebook now for that very reason, as well as realizing it has become a very toxic environment for me in general.