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Originally Posted by sillybillie
I think he is probably relieved I have gone and left him alone. I think he just saw me as a nuisance.
My question is how do you move on from someone who you love and miss desperately but is ignoring you? He lives hundreds of miles away which you would think would help but it hasn't. I sacrificed a nice guy for him and have decided to stay single as I can't get over it. What's worse is that I think he hates me. It's making me really depressed and I don't know what to do other than eat sugary foods and drink alcohol.
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Time and absolute acceptance that it's permanently over between the two of you. You stated that he likely was relieved you left the forum and saw you as a nuisance. This guy has no desire to be with you, unfortunately. You seem to accept that which is good. That's half the battle.
The rest is grieving (being sad it didn't work out) and the passage of time. It will take awhile.
It's normal to have dreams of him. If you find someone you are interested in, get to know them. The dreams aren't reality. Good luck.