I've definitely told her many many times why I cannot go visit her at her barn. In fact, until she talked to the manager about moving her horse there, she was banned for the exact same reason! The only reason they allowed her to move her horse there is that they are very desperate these days to fill the barn, and since she pays her board in full and on time, they allowed her back. But it is my understanding that she can be kicked out at any time if they see fit, so I would assume they aren't exactly happy to have her back either. But it's nearly impossible to make money in the horse industry, so money talks!

I actually had a discussion last night with the horse friend, about how I have been feeling rejected and like I am putting all the effort into our friendship, and she flipped it around and made me the villain, again because of me not visiting. I told her that if she were to go for a ride off property and around the block,i would meet her and her horse and go for a walk with them, but she gave me a bunch of excuses as to why that won't work. Sigh.