What concerns me even more is why people in other forums bash people with personality disorders. As I'm moving into the realm of service to help others recover from PD it concerns me how much vitriol there is out there against people with PD.

Its not fair to the people on PC who are trying to get better. Yes a person with an untreated PD can be a holy terror however if that person is looked at within the context of their family many times it will make sense.