Hi shygirl8;

Well, he played you alright. Let it be a lesson for future relationships. The guy is a cad and this is coming from a guy. He is just out there on the hunt and he made that clear with his actions and statements 15 minutes after he got in your pants. That my dear is the trademark of a low down hit and run dog.

Then he goes out and tells all his associates how he "banged" you. What a piece of trash this sorry excuse for a man is. A real man would have been up front and told you his real feelings/intentions not after he tasted the fruits of your tree.

You gave in way to soon, now learn from it. The majority of men are just like that. One day he will fall in love and it will not be reciprocated. Believe me, he better watch the seed he scatters because he'll reap what he sows.

Anyway that is my opinion. You can pick yourself up and be careful next time. Get something for what you have to give.
Don't be so easy and it will be better. Men love to persue and if you are not easy to catch they fall in love. Men do not fall in love easy but when they do, it's sickening to see.
I have seen many mighty egotistical men fall for some sweet thing that plays them like a fiddle. Seen them cry and be all emotional when they talk about loving a girl that dosen't love them. I tell them it is payback for all the girls that you ditched and used.

I could wax more phylosophical but, what will it do to brighten your outlook rather than make you more bitter.

Good Luck