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Originally Posted by healingme4me
What would happen if you changed your passwords? Or let me rephrase, what's the worst that could happen if you changed your passwords? When there's an argument, what's his temper like?
It's not the greatest thing to have a sense of not trusting him to be there so that you can make an appointment. And not believing that you can confide in him about your emotions. Those are very important needs that are unmet at the moment.
Was there a changing point between you or were things always like this?
"Investigate your hidden assumptions."-Cornel West
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I've tried changing my password and passcode locking my phone, but then he asks me what I'm trying to hide, etc., when I do that. I don't look on his phone, and I do know his password. As far as telling him my feelings, I always get the "deer in headlights" look when I'm trying to talk to him, or he will go off and wash dishes or fold laundry so he doesn't have to make any sort of eye contact with me when I'm trying to tell him stuff. He ended up being off work today, so I can definitely see my therapist this evening (I am glad for that).