Going to college is a great time for personal growth, in my opinion. It's an excellent opportunity to focus on yourself, what you want for your life, etc. Most don't have the responsibility of being a spouse, caring for a child, etc., it is a time for YOU.
I broke off a LDR that was getting serious in a long term commitment sense. He was older, wanted marriage and was prepared to move where I was located. I was heading off to college locally and I didn't want to be tied down. It was a bold move, as I cared about this person, but I've no regrets. I wouldn't have had the time of personal growth described above. I wanted to be free ... it didn't really have much to do with dating new people. I just felt it was important to be free.
Just my experience. I wish you the best.
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