Sometimes people accompany us for a determined amount of time and then their part in our life is over, for whatever reason. It doesn't mean we have to stick to that person, esp when said person (or the relationship) hurts you. Her usefulness seems to have run out.

Just like some toxic friendships or partnerships... there comes a time *we* have to set our own boundaries so others don't trample all over us.

You learnt through those two years - positive as well as negative (e.g. how a T should *not* treat you). This T is on some sort of power trip and/or delusion.

Another person's trust is precious-fragile-a gift. She is abusing yours. Could you really ever trust her again? Still be open and vulnerable wit her? Or fearing she might switch on you again would you 'restrict' yourself or walk on eggshells?

Again, I am sorry, I know you are hurting but if you stay with her I believe you would lose more productive years. She is not trustworthy nor reliable, let alone competent. Imo.