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Originally Posted by sillybillie
No, we're not back on, we're just friends but I would like it to be more. He wouldn't. Maybe I shouldn't talk to him but I would miss him like crazy and yes that would lead to more binging. I at least need to find a better coping mechanism for all the hurt I am feeling and will feel if i don't talk to him. I don't know if I can stop talking to him. xx
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A therapist can help you learn new coping mechanisms. I can understand why you want to stay in contact. Why does he want to be friends now? You stated previously that he was relieved you'd left the forum and likely saw you as a nuisance. I don't understand.