I just told her I don't feel like going out with her now. And she keeps texting me. She knows what she is doing. If I don't respond she will ask me questions about my life- will ask if I have seen a certain guy lately. Will ask about my kids. I'm surprised she hasn't actually started calling yet.
I want to block her. But it will get to the point if I do she will start calling the home phone leaving these lengthy messages (kids will hear). its as if I feel like I am being blackmailed. Then it could get to point where she will make it seem like I need help. Then may even say "well, who else are you going to go out with?'

She will manipulate and do whatever. then she flat out lied to me again. I KNOW when she lies.