Do any of you have problems working with menopause??

It scares me to think of having mental problems (I already have anxiey and depression, and am not stable to begin with!!) How am I going to go through this???

My periods are SUPER HEAVY for about 5 years (I have to plan around them) Am using a super tampon and pad at same time and sometimes can't make it over an hour! (that is usually only 2 days that that happens)

I am super stressed to begin with living with parents that make my life hell. I need to move out. If I disagree with anything they say "for example if I say that I don't like a tablecloth or something that is so minor I will be told I need to be committed!! They will say "there's something wrong with you, you are messed up" I may even get punched in the face. How do I deal with menopause like this????