Hi fellows,

So, its been brought to my attention that I still have the BPD behavior of unfriending people on social networks with no explanation. A former therapist said to me that a joke among therapists is that a person outs themselves as borderline with this behavior. I don't really understand why I am still doing this as I no longer have a dx of PD NOS.


I guess the bigger question is why do I friend people in the first place, either in the past in school, or other events, and in the present online, or even dealing with family or inlaws after divorce.


This whole subject makes my head spin. Has anyone else ever thought about these things? I also think this has to do with my trust thread I started yesterday, and the meme I just uploaded today, about what happens when a person you felt safe with lied to you.


This is a very complicated issue for me, going back to my what I now believe to be to my personality disordered mother, and how she treated me, even how she treated my friends.


This is a very deep subject for me too.


Can anyone relate?