I'm deleted my post because I looked like a loony with an isolated rant.

Yeah, peace Sister.

Do what works. I really think that. I'm sorry if it sounded like I was attacking or condemning or disvaluing peoples ways of coping. I just feel quite strongly about 'last resort' - I think that in some instances it makes a SUBSTANTIAL difference, but in the majority of cases it really is unclear whether people are better off or worse off.

But yeah, peace my friend.

I didn't really mean to talk 'about' another so much as 'to' another...

And I wouldn't necessarily think the same thing with respect to another.

Peace.