not sure this will help but i had sex at a young age and then it got carried away and had way to many partners that was teh bp in me but then I got into some relationships that were not good ones alot of abuse and crap that turned me off sex for a long long time I am now 40 been in the noway sex mood for about 10 yeras until recently met a man who I really love and he lovces me he waited till I was sure of myself before we did anything and its been a rollercoaster since there are still times I just can't handle the thought of sex due to thepast creeping up. But you are not alone out there i am sure of that. and saving yourself is something I wish I would have done way back then I have to give you a thumbs up for sticking with your decision. and remeber you will find mr right one day and when you do it will be ok..