this is basically just getting everything off of my chest and might not make a whole lot of sense, but please reply.

my dad treats me liek *****! i am fourteen and go over to his house every other weekend. he told me that i am fat which caused me to be anorexic/ bulimic from ages 11 to 13. i do everything wrong in his eyes, for example: the other day he was having me sweep and scrub his bathroom (i should mention that even though he is a 40 year old man he claims that he is unable to do house work because it is a "woman's job" so i do everything at his house, even yard work) he claimed that i was sweeping "wrong". first of all how do you sweep wrong? i thought that as long as you got the dirt off of the floor that it was the right way to sweep. well according to him i was using the wrong sweeping movements and was qoute "retarded". it really doesn't bother me that he called me retarded, what bothers me is that my older sister, who is sixteen and also his child, is mentally handicapped. therefore i DO NOT like it when people call others retarded. it just angers me so much that he cant show a little compassion that he has a mentally handicapped daughter and shouldn't use that word around her.

another thing that he did was i take antidepressants, and obviously i take them to his house when i go over there, and he forces me to give him some. then threatens that if i tell anyone that something quite unpleasant will happen. i don't think that that is normal.

i don't know...he just tells me how worthless and stupid that i am and how i will never amount to anything and that i won't make it into college (i make the honor roll every time and i am taking 10th grade classes in ninth grade).
and don't tell me that i should just go to court and make it so i can't go over there anymore, because his child support is what my mom pays most of the bills with, without it we would be out on the streets.
i guess i don't really want a solution i just wanted to tell someone, i never have before.