The thing is, I can't believe that she is doing all this with foresight. And I'm also not sure how to go about it further, if I try to express what I don't like, she keeps deflecting or turning things around. The thing is, I have had my share of games in relationships and I'm sick of it, there are more important things in my life than having to be on the lookout all the time assessing her actions. I don't want to continuously have to "power play", and just words don't seem to get to her at all. Also to note, I'm 23 and she is 22.