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Originally Posted by Myrto
Tanks for all the replies! I hear what you are all saying which is: I should fire her. The thing is, even if I am hurt and angry at her behaviour, the idea of moving on is just impossible. If I switch therapists that means I have lost two and a half years of my life. All the stuff I talked about, the vulnerability I displayed it will all have been for nothing. Plus I won't have closure :she won't admit to being wrong she won't apologize. I will be left with nothing.
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I had the same thing with first T. it was so painful (she fired me one night, didnt say why, just that she was done with me.) I had no closure with her. i too felt all of my vulnerability was for nothing. it absolutely tore me up to not see her anymore
I was POSITIVE i would NEVER be able to move on. i cried every day for over a year. i thought i was hopeless.
then after two years i found my new t. she is amazing. she meets my needs. and she helped me get over old t. and i have moved on (its been 8 years.) It was HARD. but i did it. if i can do it, anyone can.