My gram gave me a few words of advice years and years ago. 1)don't live with your mother inlaw. 2)beware of the mother that is too intrusive into her son's life.3) pay attention to how he treats his mother.
Other than that, you'll be fine.
And I still swear, that's some sage advice she gave me.
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