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Originally Posted by Throwmeaway
The thing is, I can't believe that she is doing all this with foresight. And I'm also not sure how to go about it further, if I try to express what I don't like, she keeps deflecting or turning things around. The thing is, I have had my share of games in relationships and I'm sick of it, there are more important things in my life than having to be on the lookout all the time assessing her actions. I don't want to continuously have to "power play", and just words don't seem to get to her at all. Also to note, I'm 23 and she is 22.
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Oh, just FYI...the BDSM stuff isn't a factor, IMO. I don't find it abnormal or weird.
I don't think she is playing a game, I think it's a parasitic lifestyle and you're the host. And add a dollop of meanness in her behavior.
I didn't want to be too blunt, but I guess I wasn't clear. But I don't know her, you do. Only my impression. Quite likely I'm wrong.
Here to support you, that's all.
